Ya know, I read a comment to one of my posts that has me thinking. As mom's we need to remember that we are not perfect. We can't make everyone happy all the time. We have to take the information we have at any given moment and make the best decision we can. That's all we can do. Do we make mistakes? Of course we do. We're human.
Mom's try to be SuperMom. It's just not reality. If someone seems to be like SuperMom....well you aren't seeing the whole story. Nobody is SuperMom, period!
So, if you make a decision that pissed somebody off...well, just tell yourself that it's unfortunate they feel that way and that you made the best decision you could. Then, move on! Feel good about yourself. Mom's have a very tough job. We juggle kids, their schedules, husbands, pets, our homes, and work. We are allowed an occasional meltdown. If it happens, pull yourself up by the bootstraps and say, "hey, I tried".
Don't be so hard on yourself. Yes, I'm talking to YOU! You are a wonderful and beautiful person and I'm glad that I know you.
you are so sweet! Hopefully we can talk sometime (soon) so I can vent. I REALLY need to vent and cry.
ReplyDeletelylas
what do you mean, I AM perfect!
ReplyDeleteNicki,
ReplyDeleteYou silly silly girl! LOL
Hey we're having a birthday party at Creekside Kingdom for Jourdan and John on Sunday from 1-4. We've invited about 55 kids, and the whole fam. If you're not busy you guys should come over and have some food and let your little guy play with all the kids. We're doing games and prizes, food and cake. I don't have your email or I would have sent it to ya earlier.
See ya
Tracy