I have been going through something really difficult with Jason. First, the breakup with his girlfriend. She was seeing other guys while dating him. It broke his heart like you wouldn't believe. He is still upset over it, he's still not over it, and it's still eating at him. The bitch of it is that her mom has been my best friend, aside from Scott, for about 12 years.
I feel like I am hurting Jason by continuing my friendship with her mom. It hurts him when he knows that I have talked to her. I dont' know what to do. I feel like my friend is still not dealing with reality when it comes to her daughter. Jason has seen her hugging and hanging on another boy at school and there are rumors about the two of them. It's hurting him and there is nothing I can do about it. Jason even let her mother know it was going on but my friend claims that they two of them are just friends.
Just friends. That's what she has said all along about the other guys she was seeing on the side. It's how she got away with so much. It's not helping her to get better with her self-esteem! She has just gone on with her same ill behavior only now it's without a phone or her computer.
It's been a while, but it is still hurting him and I think he feels that I am betraying him if I talk to my friend. I feel the same way and I need to talk to her about it. It hurts me too because I care very much about this friendship but I don't believe that her daughter has changed. It's not been long enough and I think she just isn't being honest.
She's not my daughter and I can't do a damn thing about what's going on in her life. It's up to her mom and dad to deal with her. All I can do right now is support Jason and help him feel better. It's been over a month and he is still dealing with it and not sleeping well. He's in a terrible mood and he is still having such a hard time...especially seeing her at school with other guys. I can't even imagine.
On top of all that, he's getting screwed at work. He hasn't worked in a month. I don't know if they are trying to push him out or what? What would you think if you just stopped getting scheduled to work. The business we work for is definitely not one that has regular hours. It varies from week to week and day to day. But when you have a good employee that gets customers calling the office to praise, and gets all top scores on his comment cards, do you stop scheduling him to work? Honestly, there are people in my office who have a bug up their ass about me. I feel they are taking it out on Jason. We'll see how the rest of this week goes. My fear is that Jason's guidance counselor has called me and he may loose credit for the 2 classes that are considered his "school to work" which will drop his GPA into the toilet.
I've bitched enough. Oh, I could say so much more. I'm mad as hell! What would you do if it were your son?
No comments:
Post a Comment